School habits

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Outside the home, schools are the primary vehicles for educating, socializing, and providing services to young people in our country.

Smoking school children at their very tender age, taking dopants such as whitner used for erasing on paper writing, consuming - alcohol, chemical sprits, cough syrabs and smoking, pre marriage pergnancy at school level, abortion, immature sex, lesbian, gay, homosexual partners and transgender.......all kinds of unwelcomed changes are taking place in our society specially in schools. Schools are paving a new way for this kind of activities because of getting immense opportunities from various cultural backgrounds.

Students of this kind may face bullying, exclusion, and discrimination in school, putting them at physical and psychological risk and limiting their education. This is true. At the same time we cannot support their practices  and protect them from risks. In order to save them, can we support their habits inculcated. Never possible.

Think over it. How can we save these victims from their lifestyles and save our culture and heritage.

Only way is giving frequent awareness. Our awareness should not imbibe in them to get to know a new life style which they are not aware of.

¶ Sonal Kathuria: Keeping in mind the exposure the students are getting these days, these are very normal things. Students learn from what they see in their surrounding.The only best thing we can do is to communicate the good and bad effects of any habit and leave it to them to decide. Trust me when we talk and dont impose the results are better.

¶ Debabrata Biswas: The root cause of all problems is IDENTITY CRISIS ...

Secondly, Enemies inside and outside the country are continuously trying to spoil the INTEGRITY OF CHARACTER of citizens and next generations ...

Only Solution - Integrated Education

¶ Dr. BALA SUBRAMANIAN: Most of the incident or habits started like a fun and want to show the anger .... Sadly it's like a web. A slow walk for self trapped, so if you have clear evidence, kibdly call and say the disadvantages and health issues  and it's causes, bad leading road for moth cancer, ling cancer, etc.... 

Perhaps now google can helps you to show the real picture, if they have mobile so some you tubes, make an awareness, little make scary too. 

Sure today you are a villain and tomoor sure your are the lamppost 

¶ S. C. Vohra: I have been reading the wonderful pieces of writing /views on this topic with keen interest. The exposure the students of today are getting isn’t a sudden happening. It may be a normal scenario in metropolitan cities but in small towns and cities it’s not that rampant. The parents there still exercise a strong control and the moment they get an adverse report from the school, swing into action and try to do as much damage control as possible and in a majority of cases they are able to embrace success. In some 5% cases, they give full freedom to school authorities to handle them the way they deem fit. The real trouble starts when we accept them as normal. The schools and parents try to brush under the carpet all such incidents for the fear of getting a bad name for the school and the family. In many cases children blackmail their parents by either running away from homes or threatening to commit suicide. One child families either over pamper them or show extra concern and fulfil all their right-wrong demands. Private managements are generally money oriented and keep an eye on annual balance sheet , little bothering about such incidents. Right from the day a child is admitted in the school, deviations from set school standards should be a strict “ No , No.” An environment of good conduct needs to be created in the school and recruitment of staff should be done after full scrutiny. We must remember that the school is a lengthened shadow of the headmaster/ Principal.

¶ Leena Rai: Children have got deviated from the right pathway and don't want to listen to anyone nor any change they want however happy in the cocoon they  have weaved for themselves. Right or wrong is not what we need to teach everyone. The only thing is the need of the power of Self-assessement in oneself where various resources remain available to make them aware about the consequences of wrong doings and acts and indulgences.

But the major concern of their deviation is the treatment their parents do to their parents. Children are grown and grown but more in their mindsets considering the older generation too old to understand and below the level to match theirs. When we question or get angry at our parents have we ever thought of how and what effect it would be creating in the minds of next generation. Later how can we expect the respect from these very kids of home. Similarly, we are in a culture shock of today as one of my peers well said that children are after the parties in halls and to an extreme extent their parents do endorse this very idea.

To large extent just notice the drapes of both girls and their mothers in a formal occasion and to dismay-the salon dressing if little dolls to have a compliment LIKE MOTHER LIKE DAUGHTER and thanks to this very modernised digital society that fathers drink with their sons and this is considered to be supercool.

¶ Buvana: Today kids not ready to hear NO for their demands...parents trying to give everything they demands due to their guilty ( not possible to give enough time due to work)..... which  leads kids  loosing patience.

¶ Anju Datta: It is a burning situation because of parents,  yes because of their attitude towards their families. The behavior of their kids is like a learning outcome in front of society. The parents are not conscious of their roles, they have one thing in their senses that's to fulfill the demands of their kids. Here I will say even demands are created by the parents. A small child does not know about the brand name. Parents are providing them with such big named material in the form of fancy stationery,  dresses, footwear, etc. They transfer the knowledge of the brand name with the price tag. So then the child demands the same,  then we people complain about their conduct.  A man wants to develop a friendship bond with his son. On the occasion of the birthday party of his son's friend, he offers an ordinary pen and altered the cap of the specific pen with the expensive pen. Here he told his son to speak the name of that specific brand name, and justify his son by saying it's common among friends. Now, who's the culprit parent or the son? So it's the prime duty of the parents first to clear the garbage from their minds. When their vision will be clear then they will be able to show the clear path to the next generation.